Monday, October 21, 2013

Jealously with Threats: Reagan Leslie

Imagine this scenario in your head. You and the person that you are with are really hitting it off. But on some occasions, you cant really tell how his affections are to you. (even his he meets with his previous lover to "catch up." Yes, we all know that jealously can be ugly in most cases, but there are some ways to control it. Here's some examples of how you can decode your emotions and if the women in his life are bad news: 1) If your jealous of the ex that's still around, don't bash on her and call her needy. Just tell him that you don't really feel comfortable that she's around us in the nicest possible way you can. Any boyfriend would do anything to make you comfortable. 2) Jealousy strikes when he has a previous lover that rocked his world. You can't really change the past, so all you can do is accept it. 3) Jealousy strikes with the female coworker. First tell him that you would like to meet the coworker to talk to her. If you just talk to her, you'll find out the truth. Jealousy hits with the best friend as a female. First, see if the friendship is harming the relationship. Try to tease him about it at first then if it really bothers you, talk to her instead. I think this is awesome advice, but a person like this is kind of desperate for some attention. So, in other words, if you are in a relationship with someone, make sure that you let them talk about themselves, really listen to them.... I think they will really appreciate.

1 comment:

  1. Well, if you are jealous of something that your boyfriend has, you probably shouldn't be dating. If you really loved each other you wouldn't question his relationship with other people.

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